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What’s on your mind #TWG? Can storylines ever be ‘too real’? #Discussion.

I know, I know, I’m sorry! There has been plenty on TWG’s mind since we last took a trip there, but I haven’t been able to extract my thoughts just for you, until now! Honoured? Should be!

I have a feeling that this weeks topic might cause a large discussion as I believe that a lot of you will have an opinion about it. Please don’t shy away, get involved in this discussion, as well as any others, by commenting on this post! Let me know what YOU think!

TWG is talking about storylines this week. Can a storyline ever be TOO real? I know that people often read for amusement or to escape their personal struggles and reading a book mirroring those struggles, might be distressing. Do those types of books put you off? Do you prefer reading books that have storylines that are completely different from your own life and what you have been through or are going through? Or, do you find those storylines refreshing?

Tough one really, isn’t it? Personally, I read for amusement and I aim for books that are hilariously different. For example; Kitty French – Melody Bittersweet and the Girls Ghostbusting Agency or Carol Wyer – Life Swap. There are many, many more that take me away from my struggles for the time it takes to read that particular book. However, I find it extremely refreshing to read a book that has a character with an illness the same, or similar to one of mine, or a storyline based on something that I have been through. Whilst reading about those topics can be quite emotional and often gut wrenching, I think that tough situations need to get highlighted within books. Sometimes, if an illness or event gets brought up in the media, there is a higher chance of a negative spin on it because people are uneducated about it. But, put that into a book where the reader is absorbing the information in their own way, the topic is seen in a completely different light. It’s as though the fictional book is educating the reader.

Several months ago I read a book that highlighted an illness that a lot of people know OF, but they don’t know IT; The Years Of Loving You by Ella Harper. For me, seeing my symptoms in black  and white, but really being the characters symptoms, was emotionally refreshing. It gave me hope that maybe just ONE person will read it and be able to approach the situation completely differently to help a loved one. I do think that books that are close to the reader’s life, often take away the ‘taboo’ heading for that particular topic. Even though they are fictional characters, it as though you have an ally, someone who knows what you’re going through. Either that makes me sound extremely odd now, or it’s widely agreed with. Someone please say yes…

Don’t get me wrong, I can see that reading a book that reminds you of a time you’d rather forget, isn’t good and that’s where the ‘too real’ factor might come in.

It really is a tough one to gauge, especially when every reader has their own likes and dislikes when it comes to books, as well as having their own troubles to contend with. I am really intrigued to hear your thoughts on this one so please do comment on the post, or tweet me @kaishajayneh and let me know if there is such a thing as being too real, where books are concerned!

4 thoughts on “What’s on your mind #TWG? Can storylines ever be ‘too real’? #Discussion.

  1. Always a hard one, people read books for all sorts of reasons at all sorts of times of their lives. learning about an illness or a way to make a change in your own life might be specialist reads, where as reading for relaxation and fun takes a reader in another direction.

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  2. I like a mix of both, purely for leisure I want to be taken on a romantic/comedy ride or a really creepy thriller. But due to my illness I do read a lot for either research, self help or reassurance. Having a medical background I do like to know what is likely to happen to me! I haven’t read The Years Of Loving You by Ella Harper but I’m curious now. It’s all personal choice & mood isn’t it? Great thought provoking post xx

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    1. Big hugs to you! I definitely think reassurance is underestimated within some books and their storylines. Often in reality you find that people either cannot be bothered to just google your illnesses, or just cant be bothered to be there for you, so when there is a character that you can relate to in a way that you cannot do outside of a book, it brings so much reassurance. The Years Of Loving you (there is review on my blog way back in April), had me in tears because it felt like I was reading a book that mirrored the symptoms of one of my illnesses. That said, one book recently mentioned one of my other illnesses and undermined it completely as a ‘at least it’s only’ type of one. Valid points made my lovely, sorry I rambled haha. xx

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